Sorry for being in hibernation for too many weeks on my blog.
However, as a result of an experience I had last night, I wanted to visit with you about GRACE.
Theologians define grace in different ways. "Unmerited favor" is the classic definition. Others have proposed the acrostic, God's Resources At Christ's Expense. Some say grace is getting what you do not deserve and mercy is not getting what you do deserve.
All these definitions have merit and value but the definition I have always held to, the one I have used to teach grace and seems truest to the scripture is as follows: "The empowering presence of the Holy Spirit, enabling the believer to become all that God wants him to become and to do all that God calls him to do".
Last night we sat in an Iowa City hospital with Dave and Steph Ricketts as they said good bye to their son Ben. Twenty-two months old Ben had gotten tangled in curtain chord at home, some of the chord had gotten wrapped around his neck and Ben ended up on a ventilator in the Iowa City Hospitals. It was a tragic accident and a parent's worst nightmare. Please continue to pray for Dave, Steph and their family.
In the early evening yesterday, Ben was taken off the ventilator. Due to fluids on his lungs, Ben struggled to breath on his own. And this is where the grace comes in.
Dave, Ben's dad lifted Ben out of his hospital bed and held him in his lap, draped his little body with a green blanket and caressed this precious boy, carrying on a sweet conversation. I didn't hear everything because it was a private conversation between father and son. But what I could hear, Dave assured Ben of his and his mom's love for him and the loss they felt. As he stroked Ben's forehead, he talked to Ben about God's great love for him and that unless Father decided otherwise, that Ben would be face to face with Jesus soon.
And then Dave asked for his computer. I thought he was going to drop someone an email or get on Facebook and write another wonderful entry in his log. But instead, he went to I-tunes and selected a few key songs and he began to worship. The first song he played was one he said he and Ben had both worshiped to.
Oh How He Loves Us
He is jealous for me,
Loves like a hurricane, I am a tree,
Bending beneath the weight of his wind and mercy.
When all of a sudden,
I am unaware of these afflictions eclipsed by glory,
And I realize just how beautiful You are,
And how great Your affections are for me.
And oh, how He loves us so,
Oh how He loves us,
How He loves us so
Yeah, He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves.
We are His portion and He is our prize,
Drawn to redemption by the grace in His eyes,
If grace is an ocean, we’re all sinking.
So Heaven meets earth like a sloppy wet kiss,
And the heart turns violently inside of my chest,
I don’t have time to maintain these regrets,
When I think about, the way…
He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves.
Yeah, He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves.
John Mark Mcmillan
Here is a Dad and Mom, sitting in a hospital room, watching their beautiful son breath his last and they are worshiping. What enables people to do such a things? GRACE!
The powerful presence of the Holy Spirit who enables we as followers of Jesus to become all God wants us to become and to do all God has called us to do. Oh how He loves us.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
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that is powerful! Thank you Jesus for your grace!
ReplyDeleteThank you, I feel God's grace is what gets me through each day and able to start a new one each morning. So thankful for the Holy Spirit. Thank you Pastor Dan.
ReplyDeleteOh my...I have no words. There is beauty in death.
ReplyDeleteThe Ricketts family and you, Pastor Dan/Mr. Paxton and your family, are as giving and amazing as I remember! Selena
ReplyDeleteRicketts family, you have been called to be a tremendous witness of Jesus. Think of the way that Benjamin showed Jesus to so many people via the CaringBridge site, Facebook, this blog, and many church's prayer chains--not many 22-month-old kids have done that!! Although this is never the path you would have chosen, you have walked it in a God-honoring, God-glorifying way. Only one verse comes to mind--Matthew 25:21: "Well done, my good and faithful servant." That all sounds good on paper, but I know you are grieving now...so may God comfort you in this terrible time right now.
ReplyDeleteLove that song! Thank you Uncle Dan for sharing this sad, yet beautiful moment. The Busch Family is still praying for all of you! Love you!
ReplyDeleteWow, I am sitting here with tears in my eyes. What a powerful moment. I am so sorry for the Ricketts family. They will be in many prayers today I am sure..
ReplyDeleteI can't stop thinking about this family... my prayers are for them and their peace and their strength...
ReplyDelete"Nothing brings Him greater fame, than when broken people call His name..."
Praise God for their ability to see Him in the midst of this
Great post, Dan!
ReplyDeleteVery moving.